My son was born at 17:39 in Oct. 22, 2006, its weight was 3,980g, 55cm.

On the early morning of last Saturday, it was about three o'clock AM, my wife woke me up, she felt that the baby would be born soon. So after daybreak we had breakfast, then we went to the hospital by taxi. My wife went through a checkup there, the Doctor confirmed my wife's feel.

It was a hard time to me in the hours before my baby was born, my wife suffered from severe labour pains for a long time. After we went into the hospital for about 6 hours, my wife began to feel a pain,  with the time gone, the pain was getting worse, my wife was perspiring heavily.

On the next day morning, my wife was finally pushed into the delivery room, then I began to wait outside the delivery room. I waited and waited, time went by slowly, but no any development for my wife though the pain of her was unbearable later. A whole day passed, my feelings of anxiety was growing. Finally, at about 5 o'clock pm, the doctor told me that my wife met some difficulties so they thought that the caesarean section should be performed, of course, I agreed and signed my name in an agreement.

After about 40 minutes, a nurse told me that I got a boy, some minutes later, I saw him, and then I saw my wife lying on a patinent's bed, at that time, I finally felt relieved.

Chai Jing, a famous reporter of CCTV, I knew her last year during the two meetings, at that time, it was said she was famous, but I did not know. As a reporter who reported the two meetings, I did not find any advantage of her except her age -- she was still young.

Some days ago, I found a blog "观察". I just opened it chronically. And then I found that Chai Jing does be a good reporter of strong social conscience.

Later, I found she comes from Shanxi too. I am proud of her.

Today is the expected day that my baby would be born, but he/she seems not like to see the world so quickly. So we have to wait and wait. My wife is so worried about why he/she has not come out yet. She said that the baby looks lazy like me :) , Maybe, who knows? Since my wife knew that we are going to have a baby, she often asked me that I liked boy or girl. In fact, I don't know, sometimes I think girl is better, but sometimes I think girl is more troubled than boy, especially if the girl is beautiful, Parents have to worry about her all the time.

Anyway, whether I prepared for it or not, I have to be upgraded to a father from a husband. I am waiting this version release with growing unease.

Amen!

从Belem那里看到这个故事， 很有趣的一个故事，但引起我注意的是这个blogger的评论,看到其中的锲而不舍，全力以赴，想到了前一段时间中央电视台一个节目“赢在中国”，其中王志东是嘉宾，说了一句话：炒股有个很经典的问题是，什么时候应该买进，什么时候应该卖出，同样有一个很经典的回答是，该买进的时候买进，该卖出的时候卖出。王志东又说：对于创业而言，同样的经典问题是，什么时候应该坚持，什么时候应该转向，同样的经典回答是该坚持的时候坚持，该转向的时候转向。

买进还是卖出，坚持还是转向，这是个问题。要根据具体的情况具体判断。

写到这里又想起几句话，说是一个人要：有接受不可改变的事情勇气，有改变可以改变的事情的能力，要具有区分二者的智慧。

同样的，坚持还是转向的关键还在要具有判断的智慧。

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什么是你的十字架

在网上偶然看到这个小故事，记录下来

一个十岁的小学生发现五年级的数学实在是他这一生中最难的功课。 举凡家教、同学、CD教学片、教科书，但都没用。 最后父母决定把孩子转进私立小学， 不是普通的私立小学，而是一所天主教学校。

开学的第一天来临了，小傢伙开始向著伟大的陌生世界冒险。 那天放学回来后，他走过父母亲面前，径直回房把门关起来。 辛苦学习了两个小时，出来吃个饭就又直接回到楼上， 认真的做功课直到就寢。 这样的模式一天继续一天，直到第一次发成绩单.

那天，这孩子走进家门，把信封丟在餐桌上，就径直回房做功课。 他父母亲打开成绩单，让他们惊奇的是数学成绩居然是A。 他们欣喜万分地冲上儿子的房间，为他的进步激动不已。

「是那些修女吗？」爸爸问。 「不是。」儿子回答。 「是课前的祷告吗？」妈妈问。 「不是。」 「是教科书、老师、还是课程安排？」爸爸问。 「不，不是。」 「喔！那么，是什么原因呢？」妈妈问。 「是这样的，进学校的第一天，我看见一个人被钉在加号上面， 我知道...他们是玩真的。」

我的观点：其实无论是工作，学习，生活都是一种态度，在于你看问题的立场和角度。而在我们现实的生活中，无论做什么事情，可以敷衍了事，也可以去尽力而为，但是很少看到有人去全力以赴，契而不舍。也许这就是成功与失败的界限，我们与伟人的区别。

摘自郭安定在《程序员》上的文章

一、为什么要做好技术讲座

二、如果才能做好？

1. 确定主题，做足备案
   •  好主题的标准是：在做这个讲座是，讲师是发自内心地想和听众分
   • 要弄清听众的人数，做出相应的现场安
   • 在选择主题的时候，一定不要选择自己不熟悉的领
   • 一场讲座PPT的张数 = 4 + (x / 60 * 8) x代表讲座时间， 4是指每场讲座前，做好要有4张用来做简介的PPT，第一张，告诉听众讲座的主题是什么，自己代表谁来做这堂讲座；第二张，简单介绍一下讲师的背景；第三张，告诉听众这个讲座包含哪些内容，也就是讲座大纲；第四张，是最后的结尾部分，可以放引用参照，或公司商标等
2. 控制最佳时间
3. 灵活调整讲座的内容
   • 开始前，与听众互动，大致了解听众的背景，然后将重点放在大多数人感兴趣的主题上
   • 第一，最大的挑战是让别人懂，而不是觉得我们行；第二，要把复杂的东西讲的简单容易记忆；第三，从问题的现象说起，而非先谈理论概念
4. 注重环境和细节
5. 讲的多不如讲的巧
   • 一个好的讲师一定要让自己的讲座抑扬顿挫，充满感染力；一个最简单有效的方法，就是讲课的时候用MP3或者数码录音笔录下来，然后再反复听的过程中发现问题，在下次讲座时想办法改进。
   • 少谈理论多讲实例
6. 事前预防特殊状况
7. 如何面对现场来宾提问
   • 第一，要搞清楚对方提问的动机是什么，保证自己不会误解他的意思
   • 第二，要简化来宾的提问
   • 最后，如果不知道，要实事求是
8. 最重要的是思维